This is my life as Mommy and Wife!
It's chaotic. It's exhausting. It's incredibly rewarding. It's my dream. God has blessed me beyond measure! I'm not always joyful, I certainly don't always have it together, but all I do in this life, I want it to reflect my Savior's love and grace.
I'd be honored if you followed along as I live out my role as Mommy and Wife! And may you leave encouraged, even just a little, as you strive to wonderfully fulfill the role you've been given!
Such profound words. Words not just about an event, but about a man--the Resurrection Himself.
He's no longer trapped by death, or confined to a borrowed tomb.
And because He isn't, we aren't either. 1 Peter 1:3 speaks of a living hope that we have because of Christ's resurrection: "Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead"
And though we may all die, Jesus said this: “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live,"
This morning, I'm REJOICING in Jesus Christ my Risen Savior!
Chocolate. Doesn't the word just give you warm and fuzzy feelings? It's almost my BFF.
But unfortunately, a lot of the chocolatey goodness sold today is pretty much h-o-r-r-i-b-l-e for us.
*tears*
However, when I came across the recipe I'm about to share, I was giddy with excitement. You mean I don't have to feel guilty about eating something chocolate? Oh my. Sign me up.
I found the original recipe via The Cheapskate Cook.
Ladies, these are splendidly simple and you can mix things around. It's totally forgiving. (My kind of recipe)
photo from The Cheapskate Cook
The list of ingredients:
1 cup rolled oats*
1/2 cup peanut butter (or other nut butter)
1/3 cup honey
1 cup unsweetened coconut flakes (sweetened works fine)
1/2 cup sesame seeds (or ground nuts or flaxseed) **
1/2 cup chocolate chips (or raisins, mini chocolate chips, M&M’s or ground nuts)
*(From the Cheapskate Cook herself) "My only disappointment with these is that they use uncooked oats, which according to my research aren’t the easiest for your body to digest. I’m sure these can be replaced with something healthier, but up until now I’ve just been thankful for a frugal treat that doesn’t have an ingredients list a mile long."
**Instead of the sesame seeds, I ground up raw walnuts, raw almonds and raw organic pumpkin seeds. I also sprinkled in a tiny bit of ground flax. (Not a huge fan of the taste of flax, but that stuff packs a nutritional punch, so I put in just enough to get something out of it, but not enough to really taste it ;)
I like that this recipe uses honey as the sweetener. It's still a sugar, but it's nature's sweetener. Good ol' raw honey.
Just FYI: Your kids will totally think you are the coolest mom ever if you give them a few of these beauties for breakfast. I honestly don't feel bad doing that every now and then, because not only is this recipe a "not as bad as..." one, but depending on which ingredients you choose to add, and their quality, these Chocolate No-Bake Energy Bites can actually be very nutritious!
Now, I'm off to the fridge to get my Chocolate fix. And I'm not feelin' an ounce of guilt about it ;)
There seems to be a great awakening in the hearts of believers. An awakening toward those who need to be rescued--orphans. Those precious children who have no home, no security, no love of a mother and father, or siblings.
James says that pure and undefiled religion is "...to visit orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the world"(James 1:27 NASB) We may not all be called to adopt or to foster a child(ren). But we are all called to help in some way. That's what the Word of God tells us.
Bob and I have been challenged by our church and its mission to care for the orphans of our city, state, nation, world. We are praying for wisdom in this area to know exactly at what capacity He would have us obey. It's a little scary, I must admit. But we know how important it is for our children to have a loving and secure home--we want that for others, too.
In the words of R.C. Sproul Jr., "God didn't say natural born children are a blessing; God said children are a blessing." All children. Orphaned or not. They're a blessing. And we are to care for them in some way.
There's a documentary coming out soon called Rescued. I'm a documentary-lover, much to the chagrin of my husband =) But he's a trooper--he's watched documentaries ranging from health, homeschooling, abortion, and natural birth to even...gasp...the beauty industry! That's true love my friends. But back to the point at hand...
Here's the trailer for the upcoming documentary Rescued. I believe it's something all Christians should watch, if possible, and to pray fervently about how they are to answer the call "to visit [care for] orphans and widows in their distress"
Let's be the church. Let's not just be hearers of the Word, deceiving ourselves. But let's be doers of the Word, to the glory of God!
Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.
The ungrateful thought struck me in the middle of my complaint-filled internal tirade. "What on earth are you saying? You have nothing to complain about!" It must have been the Holy Spirit gently prodding me to remembrance. Remembrance of all the unmerited blessings in my life. Even though some days are tough, some seasons of life are longer than I would like, I have been given blessing after blessing. If I were to count them and name them one by one, it would surely take an eternity.
I know how hard it is for me to bear my son's constant whining. Is that what I sound like to God sometimes? I feel like a spoiled child at times, so prone to whine and complain when things get tough--even if it's mostly inward--for God certainly can hear those complaints when others do not. It grieves Him, too, those wayward thoughts. Because as the following quote points out, an ungrateful and complaint-filled life is a life full of pride.
"Gratitude is the overflow of a humble heart, just as surely as an ungrateful, complaining spirit flows out of a proud heart. Proud people are wrapped up in themselves. If people or circumstances don’t please or suit them, they are prone to whine or become resentful.
A humble person thinks much of God and others and little of himself. He recognizes that anything he has is better than he deserves. He doesn't feel anyone owes him anything. He doesn’t feel entitled to have more, or for life to be easy, or for everyone to love him and treat him well. He’s grateful for the least little kindness that’s extended to him, knowing it’s more than he deserves."
~Nancy Leigh DeMoss~
What conviction for me! I don't want to be wrapped up in myself. I want to think much of God and others. I want to realize the truth that is this: I don't deserve the goodness of God--certainly not His salvation. But He, the God of the universe, humbled Himself and came to earth in human form and willingly laid down His life to save us all.
How can we not be humbled at such deep, unwavering love? Divine love. Amazing and unmerited grace. In light of all that, how can we possibly be ungrateful? Ladies, let it not be named among us.
But since I've drastically cut down on the amount of sugar I eat, I haven't been baking dozens of cookies each week like I used to. Sigh.
So, I've turned my attention to homemade bread.
I've always been nervous around recipes involving yeast. Not sure why. But I've dodged yeast-necessary recipes for years.
However, I think I'm becoming more courageous as I age. It's probably motherhood that's done it for me. After all, if I can survive the shockingly wild tantrum of an almost three year old boy while simultaneously nursing a 10 month old baby girl, I should be able to handle a recipe that involves yeast. ;)
The recipe I'm sharing today is from Hallee the Homemaker. And my word, it's good. I'm a carb and dairy lover by nature, so this is heaven in my mouth!
2 packages (4½ tsp) active dry yeast 1 cup warm water (it should feel warm to the touch – if it feels hot, it’s too hot) 5-5½ cups of whole wheat flour {I used unbleached all purpose flour} 2 TBS sugar 2 tsp Kosher or sea salt 2 TBS unsalted butter (softened) 1 cup warm milk (105°F to 115°F) 1 tsp garlic powder 2 tsp dried oregano 2 tsp dried parsley leaves 16 slices provolone cheese {I didn't quite have enough provolone, so I added freshly shredded Mozzarella} -----------Directions-------------- Dissolve the yeast in the warm water. Grease a large bowl. Grease the bread pans.
Mix the flour, salt, sugar, and salt, garlic, and herbs to bowl. Stir (or if using a stand mixer, mix on power level 2 with bread hook for 1 minute.)
With the mixer running, gradually add the yeast and water mixture, warm milk, and softened butter.
Mix on level 2 for about 2 minutes. Add remaining flour, ½ cup at a time until the dough is no longer sticking to the side of the bowl. Don’t use all of the flour in the recipe unless you need it – the amount of flour used will be dependent upon the moisture content of your flour.
Knead dough for 2 minutes on power level 2 (or knead by hand for 10 minutes or until smooth and elastic.)
Place in greased bowl, turning over to grease the top. Cover with a towel and let rise in a warm place, free from draft, for one hour or until doubled in bulk.
Punch dough down and divide in half.
Place dough on a floured surface and roll into a rectangle approximately 9×14 inches.
Evenly distribute 8 slices of provolone cheese.
Starting at the short end, roll the dough tightly. Pinch the ends. Place in greased bread pan.
Repeat with the second ball of dough.
Cover and let rise for one hour or until doubled.
Preheat oven to 375° degrees F (190° degrees C).
Bake each loaf for about 40 minutes, or until browned.
Recently, it was made aware that someone whom my husband and I look up to had fallen into infidelity and adultery.
It was a jaw dropping, heartbreaking discovery.
I hurt for this man.
I especially hurt for this man's wife and children.
More than ever--and maybe it's just because I'm older, married and more aware--marriages are being destroyed left and right.
How does that happen, especially to a Christian couple? That's what I always wonder. There's a little fear to that thought. If it could happen to them....
Which is why we MUST. WE MUST be on guard. Our enemy, who is very, very real, wants nothing more than to steal from us. Our joy. Our marriage. Our children. All that we hold dear. And he will kill and destroy if he has to. (John 10:10)
He has no sympathy.
There is no kindness in him.
Age isn't a factor. He targets young and old.
At first, this can all be a scary realization.
But goodness. If God be for us, who can be against us?? (Romans 8:31)
NO ONE.
We have the victory through Jesus Christ our Lord! (1 Cor. 15:57)
We are more than conquerors through Him that loved us!! (Romans 8:37)
While we should realize the power of our enemy, we should not cower down. We have no need to lack faith or lose courage.
Let's fight the good fight!
Let's fight for our marriages.
Let's be the woman of God, the wife and the mother the Lord has enabled us to be. Has called us to be.
Women, I know when there are little ones in the house, time alone with God seems impossible.
But it can't be. It just can't.
We must be in the Word and on our knees in prayer.
We must meditate on, and commune daily with our Lord.
We may not be able to sit down in the afternoon with our Bible and some uninterrupted time. But either in the morning before the kids arise, or in the evening after they've gone to bed, we should spend some time with the Lord. We should work to hide His Word in our heart. That way, we can recall those precious and powerful words to our minds during the day. We can be encouraged during days of frustration. We can find a soft answer when we want to speak harshly. We can respect our husbands when we'd rather fight back. We can choose to walk in love and humility when pride says we deserve better.
We can fight the enemy with the power of the Living Word.
We must. We must. Don't ever let the enemy have a foothoold in our lives. In our marriages.
Because that's just what he's looking for.
And that's what he found in our friend I mentioned earlier.
To end, and to hopefully sum up what I feel are scattered thoughts, I'll share a video that has been floating around Facebook lately. It's short, but quite powerful.
“The best way to make homemaking a joyous task is to offer it as unto the Lord;
the only way to avoid the drudgery in such mundane tasks
is to bathe the tasks with prayer and catch a vision of the
divine challenge in making and nurturing a home.”
~Dorothy Patterson
Homemakers, are we bathing our tasks in prayer?
I hope to better catch the vision and divine challenge of serving my Lord and my family through the keeping of the home God has so graciously blessed us with!
